Question: Why do you love her? Answer: I don’t know, all I know is that I’m madly in love with her. The above question was what I asked one of my male friends that came complaining to me about his girlfriend’s attitude towards him; stating it clearly that he can’t let her go even in the manner she was treating him. Funny as it may sound, most men don’t even know why they are in love with their women, and neither do they know when the love started developing.
Ladies, listen up. Some species of men claim to be very smart with women by having girlfriends who think they are ‘main chicks’ while they are actually side-chicks with a big label. This is the reason you have to be extra smart to catch the culprit before they add you to their side-chick victims. It is always a thing of joy to know that you are the only woman that your man professes love to. But with today’s fast-paced world, such is becoming a challenging task for women. The level of playing around with women by some bad exampled men is on the increase. There is possibility of you hooking up with a guy who has a serious date but wants to keep as his side-chick. As a woman, you need to play with caution especially when that your new man changes his status to ‘in a relationship’. How sure are you that you are the only one he is referring to with such status? You seriously need to become wiser. If you are much into the relationship than he is or his behavior is a little bit weird to you, then it’s time to change the game to suit you both. I can remember meeting a guy who claimed he was coming to see my parents by the end of the year for marriage talks. We talked often on the phone like 3-4 times daily, but he never asked me to come see him or was eager to come either as our locations were far apart. It wasn’t a good sign for me. Guess what I did! Since the distance was already there, I had to get close to his friend that equally had an eye on me just to get information about my new man from him. Lo
Loss of sexual desires is the most common sexual dysfunction found in many, ranging from age 18-50. In marriage, sex is a connective tie that binds and brings out the true intimacy between two people. But behind closed doors, low sexual libido gap between couples are unimaginable to the extent that it is estimated that one out of four couples are in such great costly mess. If you listen to Doctors and marriage counselors, lack of sexual desires top the list of complaints by many couples. There is always a problem when a spouse desires sex more than the other does. If your partner has a low sexual libido condition, you can help him/her by changing a little bit on your approach to such frustration. You both have to acknowledge the fact that there is a problem and act proactively in solving it.
Bad guys in this context are referred to guys who are not so dangerous and violent and are irresistible by 90% of women. A bad guy is known to be confident and has set boundary rules guiding him. This is one of the reasons why women are more attracted to bad guys. He hardly bends to the will of others to please them; he pleases himself first before considering others around him. The bad guy works effortlessly to get that girl you have being dreaming about and sweeps her off her feet with mind blowing sexual fantasies; in most cases still leaves her heart broken and longing for more. He is the guy women fantasizes about and can practically do anything to have him. She can stake her neck for him even if her family and friends don’t like him.
Taking good care of your body should be an integral part of you as a young growing woman. You should cultivate the habit of staying healthy and grooming yourself well. What you don’t know about your man is that he does pay attention to how you treat yourself especially when it has to do with healthy living. It gives him clue on how you will handle the home when he has probably made you his wife. The following will outline how you can achieve a healthy living as a young woman:
Ending your relationship can be a very difficult decision. The emotional pain is always very strong; it fills you with grief and guilt over things you feel you should have done right in the relationship. It is not easy to get over that heartbreak sooner than expected; you have to keep it in mind that such process takes time and so patience is needed. The following steps will help you get over the emotional pain attached to breakup after a happy and romantic relationship.
As a woman, how you dress attracts your type of man; I hope you know that. Women have formed the habit of dressing overtly sexy like showing cleavages and going on transparent dresses to get the attention of men. When you are always seen on sex-inducing clothes, the message you send is that all you need in life at that moment is sex. Your dressing will attract the right man for yo. So, if you choose to be wearing sexy clothes, it will only end up not bringing honor and respect from men to you as a woman; instead, it will make men to start seeing you as a sex object.
One of my favorite uncles visited last month and I started teasing him about marriage, he bluntly told me that he hasn’t seen the right woman for me. I couldn’t help but laugh at him. He asked to know what was funny about what he said. I simply answered him by rephrasing his question: “Uncle, how do you know the right woman?“. Lo and behold, he couldn’t say anything tangible and that got me thinking.
If you read the love story of my friend Becky in the part one of this post, you will have no option than to feel pity for her. But what if there was something she was supposed to do, but wasn’t doing it? After deep analysis of their situation, I understood that there were many things she would have done to help prevent her man from cheating on her in the relationship, which led to the ugly situation she encountered. This is what I will share with you so that you can avoid it and have your man wanting you and you alone. So what does your man really want from you so he won’t have to look elsewhere? Let’s look at it:
Around 9:05pm, I heard disturbing knocks on the door and when I finally summed up the courage to open up, it was my close friend Rebeca, whom we all called Becky. She is a tall, huge, dark skinned and above all very pretty woman who was always full of life. But this time, she was drained with her own tears. Looking through those wet eyes of hers, I saw a hopeless woman who was ready to end life at that minute. “Come here darling” was the words that came out of my mouth out of pity. She gave me a strong embrace that made me feel she never wanted me to lose grip of her. At that point, I managed to close the door after us and led her to the closest couch. “What’s the problem?” I asked immediately.