Do you know the three different categories women put men even before you have said a word or done anything? I bet you never considered this before getting the “I’m not interested” answer. This is what I’m about revealing to you now. These three different categories are applicable to 90% of women and equally done unconsciously. Let’s kick off with the three different categories: I Think I Like Him If this crosses her mind, you have an added advantage when it comes to taking it to the next level because every other trick to win her is dependent on your effort.
In as much as women want their partners to be honest, it doesn’t mean they are honest in all ramification too. Can you actually keep a relationship up and running without lying to her? Most times, I wonder if it is possible or only heard of in movies or novels. Look at the case scenario of a jealous girlfriend that misinterprets every meeting with a female friend. If caught in such situation what will you do?
Inner games in this context are those positive practices we carry out in other to replace negative conditioned thoughts and stereotyped feelings since childhood. They are designed to enhance mental health with positive vibes. Inner games also help in building strong bond between lovers. You need to know that inner games can positively influence the body language response you get from your partner or lover. Sixty percent of the communication signals we send and receive are because of how others perceive us; thirty percent flows from the way they hear us while; ten percent comes from the words we say at that point in time.
Have you ever wondered why your nice car and accomplished career can’t make her fall for you? How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question? You seriously need to understand that the avenue for romance is littered with road-kill hearts and unrequited love. If you think you’re unique in your loneliness, then you need to think again. There are enough dashboards pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.
Do you know that Jealousy and self-esteem issues can imprison a man just the way it does to you as a woman? I bet you never considered the saying, “no one is excused from real human emotions,” because emotions know no face, color, size or gender. There are two victims here, not just one.
A man who allows himself to fantasize about the future with a girl he hasn’t made his intentions clear to, can be likened to someone that is in relationship purgatory; the friendzone card becomes inevitable in this case. When you avoid making your intentions clear and keep hoping that one day your feelings will be reciprocated sounds like a time wasting dream because it may never come through. You don’t have to be scared of making your intentions clear because clarity is a gift and it will equally shorten your periods of fantasies if you are going to be friendzoned or rejected.
The friendzone can be a very annoying zone, especially if your feelings are guinea. We have two types of chemistry when it has to do with the act of seduction. There are sexual (or physical) and emotional chemistry. Your ability to combine the two chemistry types in their right proportion will deny you the friend zone card. The sexual attraction shouldn’t be over used before you will send a signal of ‘I need sex from you’ which might not necessarily be your intentions towards the one you love.
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years and four months. Until last month that was supposed to be the fifth month, he ended our relationship. Sometime last year, he broke up with me with the lame excuse of my libido not high enough for him during our lovemaking. That excuse infuriated me because we have been enjoying our ‘beep boop’ for three and a half years, and he was just finding out that my libido wasn’t cool for him on our fourth year in the relationship. This was the sole reason I termed the excuse a lame one. After the break up (as he demanded) in the fourth year of our relationship, I found out that I couldn’t stay without him because; I was still madly in love with him, which prompted my journey towards winning him back.
You find yourself madly in love, maybe for the first time in your life. You felt that they were your perfect match and possibly your last bus stop. While on the contrary, they don’t want to be with you or maybe did recently have a change of mind. What comes next? A break-up that has left you devastated. The only important message that your instinct passes to you is how to get them back.
I know you have been in a situation where you approached a beautiful girl but were heartbroken with the “I’m in love with another” answer she gave you. Nevertheless, you don’t expect a gorgeously looking girl not to be in a relationship nor do you? With such looks, you should always prepare for answers like that or equally get ready to compete with other guys that might equally share same interest as yours.