Taking good care of your body should be an integral part of you as a young growing woman. You should cultivate the habit of staying healthy and grooming yourself well. What you don’t know about your man is that he does pay attention to how you treat yourself especially when it has to do with healthy living. It gives him clue on how you will handle the home when he has probably made you his wife. The following will outline how you can achieve a healthy living as a young woman:
As a woman, how you dress attracts your type of man; I hope you know that. Women have formed the habit of dressing overtly sexy like showing cleavages and going on transparent dresses to get the attention of men. When you are always seen on sex-inducing clothes, the message you send is that all you need in life at that moment is sex. Your dressing will attract the right man for yo. So, if you choose to be wearing sexy clothes, it will only end up not bringing honor and respect from men to you as a woman; instead, it will make men to start seeing you as a sex object.
One of my favorite uncles visited last month and I started teasing him about marriage, he bluntly told me that he hasn’t seen the right woman for me. I couldn’t help but laugh at him. He asked to know what was funny about what he said. I simply answered him by rephrasing his question: “Uncle, how do you know the right woman?“. Lo and behold, he couldn’t say anything tangible and that got me thinking.
If you read the love story of my friend Becky in the part one of this post, you will have no option than to feel pity for her. But what if there was something she was supposed to do, but wasn’t doing it? After deep analysis of their situation, I understood that there were many things she would have done to help prevent her man from cheating on her in the relationship, which led to the ugly situation she encountered. This is what I will share with you so that you can avoid it and have your man wanting you and you alone. So what does your man really want from you so he won’t have to look elsewhere? Let’s look at it:
Around 9:05pm, I heard disturbing knocks on the door and when I finally summed up the courage to open up, it was my close friend Rebeca, whom we all called Becky. She is a tall, huge, dark skinned and above all very pretty woman who was always full of life. But this time, she was drained with her own tears. Looking through those wet eyes of hers, I saw a hopeless woman who was ready to end life at that minute. “Come here darling” was the words that came out of my mouth out of pity. She gave me a strong embrace that made me feel she never wanted me to lose grip of her. At that point, I managed to close the door after us and led her to the closest couch. “What’s the problem?” I asked immediately.