Even though I wasn’t expecting it, he drew me close with his right hand and whispered to my left ear, “Promise me that our next meeting will be in my house”. To be candid, I was disappointed. I was expecting something different, but I had to hide my disappointment and pretended to be normal. ME: Sure! I promise, you just send me the address later in the week. REX: Thank you…seriously I had fun. ME: Same here dear…. (As he gently unlocks the door and we both steps out). REX: Do you really have to walk me to my car? ME: Yes, just as you helped me unlock the door (and we both laughed about it). He held my right hand as we walked down the staircase, I must admit; it felt really good. It has been a while I felt a gentle man like REX hold me so innocently.
(Pours out the last glass of my homemade smoothie and moves back into the sitting room to join REX) ME: (chuckles) hope I didn’t take too long? REX: (beams up a lovely smile) not at all dear, at least I’m enjoying the sports news. ME: Men and football games (I was right when I guessed he would prefer the sports channel anyway), I wonder when you guys will stop. REX: Football is part of us you know! ME: I see…(handing over a glass of my homemade smoothie to him). REX: Thank you very much (sips it immediately). REX: Hmmm…this tastes good! Thanks for sharing with me. ME: You are welcome. REX: (lowers the volume of the TV and turned to my direction) Ucee!
He came out of his black Toyota Highlander (2016 model) and locked it. In a pair of blue colored trousers, an ash colored polo and a black suede shoe; he was looking good I must confess. Trust my curiosity, I was peeping through my window to assess him before he gets close on my door to announce his arrival with a knock. He was looking good and simple (exactly the way I like it). A dark in complexion tall guy, his body size was exactly the way I love it (masculine) and I started building up sweet fantasies (I’m very good at that); those sheepish smiles of mine overwhelmed my lovely made-up face…..thanks to the Knock on my door, which brought me back from dreamland. You know the trick….right?
The neighborhood looked quite enchanting and beautiful, in a way that only a few appreciated. Jake stood off in distance taking random photo shots of people especially the bunch of girls taking selfies. There was something ridiculously comical about the way they made faces at their camera…they chatted and giggled at each other completely ignoring him. Well, lucky Jake; finally the pretty one with a shiny blonde hair noticed him.
We met at a colleague’s engagement party. As usual, I was late. Most people were already into their third glass of wine. But then, I had to stay back late at the office and work. I spotted him almost immediately I stepped into the dimly lit hallway. People were standing in pairs or in a group, talking and laughing. He stood alone by the door. Sipping from a glass and looking unwelcome. I took my eyes off him and searched for our host, who was at a far corner of the room, having a chat with some guests. I walked up to them and exchanged pleasantries.
Let’s face it: sex is an integral part of every romantic relationship. It ignites the fire that keeps the relationship burning. If you can spice up your sex life, then you are in for a sweet and long-lasting relationship. Whether you like it or not, if you cut off sex from a relationship, the passion that previously existed between both partners fade away. The fact that many people tend to shy away from, is that commitment cannot be felt without the desired physical manifestation of attraction, which is SEX.
“Marriage is a beautiful thing”. We hear this everyday and yet the number of divorce cases keeps increasing by the day. Does it mean that marriage has lost its beauty and flavor? Why is it difficult for people to enjoy a “happy ever after” experience with marriage these days? As a relationship counselor, it gives me a lot of concern to see some marriages crash within months or even weeks after wedding. This is not supposed to be so. Marriage is meant to bring joy, peace and fulfillment in the lives of the couple. In my experience as a relationship expert, I have come to understand that many people go into marriage with the wrong mindset and for the wrong reasons. This is exactly why their marriages don’t last. In this article, I will be outlining the top ten things you must bear in mind before going into marriage.
Do you know the three different categories women put men even before you have said a word or done anything? I bet you never considered this before getting the “I’m not interested” answer. This is what I’m about revealing to you now. These three different categories are applicable to 90% of women and equally done unconsciously. Let’s kick off with the three different categories: I Think I Like Him If this crosses her mind, you have an added advantage when it comes to taking it to the next level because every other trick to win her is dependent on your effort.
In as much as women want their partners to be honest, it doesn’t mean they are honest in all ramification too. Can you actually keep a relationship up and running without lying to her? Most times, I wonder if it is possible or only heard of in movies or novels. Look at the case scenario of a jealous girlfriend that misinterprets every meeting with a female friend. If caught in such situation what will you do?
Inner games in this context are those positive practices we carry out in other to replace negative conditioned thoughts and stereotyped feelings since childhood. They are designed to enhance mental health with positive vibes. Inner games also help in building strong bond between lovers. You need to know that inner games can positively influence the body language response you get from your partner or lover. Sixty percent of the communication signals we send and receive are because of how others perceive us; thirty percent flows from the way they hear us while; ten percent comes from the words we say at that point in time.